{"id":7395,"date":"2019-07-08T06:17:00","date_gmt":"2019-07-08T10:17:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.fredastaire.com\/bloomfield-hills\/?p=7395"},"modified":"2020-07-07T15:58:49","modified_gmt":"2020-07-07T19:58:49","slug":"what-to-do-with-an-empty-nest","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fredastaire.com\/bloomfield-hills\/blog\/lifestyle-self-improvement\/what-to-do-with-an-empty-nest\/","title":{"rendered":"What to Do With an Empty Nest"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_7397\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-7397\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.fredastaire.com\/bloomfield-hills\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/23\/2019\/06\/honey-yanibel-minaya-cruz-566197-unsplash.jpg\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-7397\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fredastaire.com\/bloomfield-hills\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/23\/2019\/06\/honey-yanibel-minaya-cruz-566197-unsplash-300x250.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"250\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.fredastaire.com\/bloomfield-hills\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/23\/2019\/06\/honey-yanibel-minaya-cruz-566197-unsplash-300x250.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.fredastaire.com\/bloomfield-hills\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/23\/2019\/06\/honey-yanibel-minaya-cruz-566197-unsplash-768x639.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.fredastaire.com\/bloomfield-hills\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/23\/2019\/06\/honey-yanibel-minaya-cruz-566197-unsplash-1024x852.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-7397\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photo by Honey Yanibel Minaya Cruz on Unsplash<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>The kids are headed to college and careers, and suddenly your house is eerily quiet. In a way, you\u2019ve yearned for this day for years \u2013 but also dreaded it. The role you\u2019ve known \u2013 parent \u2013 is evolving, changing, and no longer your primary focus.<\/p>\n<p>What to do?<\/p>\n<p>Remember that life partner you share a home with as well as the responsibilities of parenting? He or she is facing the same silent nest as you are. Remember how you used to laugh together, gaze into each other\u2019s eyes, get all romantic and silly \u2013 before kids came along?<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_7396\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-7396\" style=\"width: 194px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.fredastaire.com\/bloomfield-hills\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/23\/2019\/06\/katherine-hanlon-521256-unsplash.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-7396\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fredastaire.com\/bloomfield-hills\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/23\/2019\/06\/katherine-hanlon-521256-unsplash-194x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"194\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.fredastaire.com\/bloomfield-hills\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/23\/2019\/06\/katherine-hanlon-521256-unsplash-194x300.jpg 194w, https:\/\/www.fredastaire.com\/bloomfield-hills\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/23\/2019\/06\/katherine-hanlon-521256-unsplash-768x1187.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.fredastaire.com\/bloomfield-hills\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/23\/2019\/06\/katherine-hanlon-521256-unsplash-663x1024.jpg 663w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 194px) 100vw, 194px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-7396\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photo by Katherine Hanlon on Unsplash<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>You can get back there. And the best way to do it is to dance together.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re laughing. You can\u2019t imagine it. Life is different. You\u2019re decades older. You\u2019ve never danced. He has his hobbies, you have yours. Work demands a lot. What about that sport you\u2019ve been wanting to try?<\/p>\n<p>Yeah, yeah, yeah. Excuses, excuses.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s the deal: give dance a try. Step into the studio, sign up for an introductory lesson, meet your instructor. Grab her hand, stand tall on the dance floor, let the music seep inside your skin.<\/p>\n<p>Just go with it. Let yourself move and be moved. Let yourself laugh (so many couples come to us for their first dance lessons and end up laughing as they gain confidence in the steps \u2013 laughter is energizing, and bonding).<\/p>\n<p>A good percentage of our students are empty-nesters who, in mid-life, realized they have talent and time, a great combination to take to a dance studio. They want to move to the music. They want to meet new people. They want time just for them \u2013 to breathe, to talk, to listen, to be.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_7398\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-7398\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.fredastaire.com\/bloomfield-hills\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/23\/2019\/06\/tomo-nogi-1420151-unsplash.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-7398\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fredastaire.com\/bloomfield-hills\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/23\/2019\/06\/tomo-nogi-1420151-unsplash-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.fredastaire.com\/bloomfield-hills\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/23\/2019\/06\/tomo-nogi-1420151-unsplash-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.fredastaire.com\/bloomfield-hills\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/23\/2019\/06\/tomo-nogi-1420151-unsplash-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.fredastaire.com\/bloomfield-hills\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/23\/2019\/06\/tomo-nogi-1420151-unsplash-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.fredastaire.com\/bloomfield-hills\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/23\/2019\/06\/tomo-nogi-1420151-unsplash-370x248.jpg 370w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-7398\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photo by Tomo Nogi on Unsplash<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Dance gives you all that and more. It builds confidence where and when you need it. It connects you to a supportive, encouraging community. It gives you a break from the to-dos and demands of daily life.<\/p>\n<p>And it reunites you with the love of your youth in a way that cements this next phase of life.<\/p>\n<p>So many empty-nesters feel forlorn and alone, wondering how to fill the void in their homes and their lives as their children launch. You are not alone!<\/p>\n<p>And if you come dance with us, you never will be.<\/p>\n<p>Plus, you\u2019ll fall in love on so many levels \u2013 with the new you, with your partner all over again, with the art of dance. It\u2019s waiting for you, right here, right now.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The kids are headed to college and careers, and suddenly your house is eerily quiet. In a way, you\u2019ve yearned for this day for years \u2013 but also dreaded it. The role you\u2019ve known \u2013 parent \u2013 is evolving, changing, and no longer your primary focus. What to do? 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