{"id":5385,"date":"2017-02-01T00:12:33","date_gmt":"2017-02-01T00:12:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.fredastaire.com\/new-york-midtown\/?p=5385"},"modified":"2017-02-01T00:12:33","modified_gmt":"2017-02-01T00:12:33","slug":"ballroomdancing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fredastaire.com\/new-york-midtown\/blog\/something-interesting-about-ballroom-dancing\/ballroomdancing\/","title":{"rendered":"Ballroom Dancing Made me a Better CEO"},"content":{"rendered":"
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‘Ballroom Dancing Made Me A Better CEO’<\/h1>\n<\/div>\n<\/header>\n
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Meghan Casserly<\/a> , \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

FORBES STAFF <\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

Entrepreneurship. By women, of women, for women.<\/span> <\/span> <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Opinions expressed by Forbes Contributors are their own.<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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Tanaka (l) was honored at the Dancing Classroom 20th Anniversary Gala for her work with the non-profit that teaches\u00a0 school children to dance.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

In 2001, the World Trade Centers fell, and, like many New Yorkers, public relations executive Patrice Tanaka felt her world collapse. Crippled by depression, the tragedy of 9\/11 coincided with multiple personal traumas: her husband was terminally ill, the company she had spent decades years building was crumbling around her and she had gained nearly 40 pounds on her petite Asian-American frame. She was coming apart at the seams.<\/p>\n

The woman who swept into 60 Fifth Avenue last week was entirely put together. At 60, Tanaka has achieved a level of bliss she calls transformative, and says she lives each day \u201cfull-out and fearlessly.\u201d As the chief creative officer of CRT\/tanaka<\/a>, the agency she cofounded in 2005 is award-winning, her career has reached new heights, and Tanaka credits one thing for the incredible turnaround of both her professional and personal lives: competitive ballroom dancing.<\/p>\n

In her new memoir, Becoming Ginger Rogers: How Ballroom Dancing Made Me A Happier Woman, Better Partner and Smarter CEO<\/a><\/em>, Tanaka takes readers through her journey from despair to \u201cpure bliss,\u201d and shares the often-surprising life-lessons that she learned along the way. From her first lesson (the fox trot) to her first competition (she won), the experience has been entirely transformative, and Tanaka\u2019s convinced that the 20 million viewers of Dancing With The Stars<\/a> would experience the same phenomenon\u2014both personally and professionally–if they only let themselves go.<\/p>\n

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Becoming Ginger Rogers<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

Here, even ballroom lessons to help you step up your game in the boardroom.<\/p>\n

Leading And Partnering<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cI used to be such a solo person,\u201d Tanaka says, \u201cBut in dancing, the woman follows, never leads. In learning how to dance, I\u2019ve learned to know when it\u2019s important to be not just a follower, but an active follower in business.\u201d<\/p>\n

As the sole owner of a public relations firm, Tanaka was often courted by bigger firms hoping to acquire Patrice Tanaka and Company, but consistently demurred. She was hesitant to relinquish control over her life\u2019s work. But in 2004, she finally demurred and merged with the larger agency Carter Ryley Thomas with a collected $10 million in accounts. As a result, Tanaka stepped down as CEO for the first time in over a decade. \u201cIf I hadn\u2019t gotten involved in ballroom dancing, I never would have been open to such a merger,\u201d she says, \u201cIt took years of partnering on the dance floor to prove to myself that I could be happy following a leader I had 100% faith in.\u201d<\/p>\n

Learning To Let Go<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cSometimes you really have to lose yourself to find your balance,\u201d Tanaka says of learning to let go on the dance floor. When turning, it\u2019s especially important not to hold an ounce of strength back, or your balance can be thrown and you\u2019ll wind up on the floor.<\/p>\n

In life, Tanaka says that, while she was striving for success, she had never allowed herself to push past her comfort level. \u201cI wouldn\u2019t speak up if the subject was beyond my expertise,\u201d she says, and the realization that she might be missing her mark by holding back was a revelation. The exhilaration of a perfectly-executed turn now serves as daily inspiration to simply let go, to execute every aspect of her life as \u201cfull-out\u201d as she does on the dance floor.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

Wearing the Right Costume<\/strong><\/p>\n

When Tanaka took her first dance lesson in the Spring of 2002, her hair was cropped close and she was a devotee of the black power suit. \u201cI was really unhappy and it showed in my appearance,\u201d she recalls. There was no variety, no joy in getting dressed each day.<\/p>\n

Dancing taught her not only how to express herself physically, but also to dress for the occasion. The Tanaka who visited FORBES to talk up her new book was dressed in beige pants and was bedecked in gold baubles and a swipe of sheer, shimmery eyeshadow. She relishes having costumes made for competitions, and understands the importance of dressing the part more than ever. \u201cI\u2019m a chief creative officer,\u201d she smiles. \u201cAnd I hope it shows!\u201d<\/p>\n

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Tanaka with her instructor, Emmanuel Pierre-Antoine<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

Being Fully Present<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cIn order to dance well, you must be fully engaged\u2014with your mind, body and spirit,\u201d Tanaka says. \u201cThe only safe place to be is in the present\u2014if you think ahead, you\u2019re forced. If you\u2019re a step behind, you fall. If you over think a single mistake, there\u2019s a domino effect and the dance is ruined.\u201d<\/p>\n

Tanaka stresses that the notion of \u201cpresence\u201d is of paramount importance in the workplace, but so many people\u2014employees and executives alike\u2014overlook it. \u201cOff the dance floor, the metaphor holds,\u201d she says. \u201cSo often you\u2019re in meetings and people are physically there, but either mentally or spiritually, they\u2019re checked out.\u201d Only by being fully<\/em> present can you and those around you perform their best.<\/p>\n

Finding Time For You<\/strong><\/p>\n

Prior to following her lifelong dream of learning to dance, Tanaka\u2019s datebook was overloaded with meetings, doctors appointments for her ailing husband, non-profit work and various social commitments. Like many women, she rarely had a moment to herself.<\/p>\n

\u201cBallroom dancing helped me to reschedule myself into my life,\u201d she laughs. For the first time, she was able to find an outlet for her stress each week\u2014and her classes became a total respite from her increasingly frenetic life. By simply taking an hour of personal time, she says she became a far more focused\u2014and committed–leader in the office.<\/p>\n

Trading Perfection for The Pursuit of Pleasure<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cProfessional dancers don\u2019t look at success as a destination,\u201d Tanaka says. \u201cInstead, it\u2019s a journey of continual improvement.\u201d By taking this lesson to heart, Tanaka advises to see each failure as a step towards getting better. \u201cOnce you stop striving for that unattainable perfection, you can take pleasure in every accomplishment along the way.\u201d<\/p>\n

Case in point? Tanaka points to Sir James Dyson<\/a>, a friend and an early client. \u201cIt took 5,000 failures to create that vacuum,\u201d she says, and nobody call him a failure. \u201cPractice failing, \u201cTanaka says. \u201cOnly by becoming really good at failing can you learn to succeed more quickly.\u201d<\/p>\n

The Show Must Go On<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cAll women get hung up on perfectionism,\u201d says Tanaka. \u201cEvery one of us lives our lives trying not to make a single mistake.\u201d But in dancing, the tiniest mistakes are often overlooked in the big picture of the performance. Instead, dancers keep their heads high and smile on their faces, whether or not their feet miss a beat.<\/p>\n

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Tanaka\u2019s first competition dance was a mambo—a highly-energetic Latin dance with complicated footwork. She felt good about her performance but agonized over a few missteps to her coach and dancing partner. \u201cI thought there\u2019s no way I could win with what I felt were such glaring mistakes,\u201d she recalls, but was floored to be called to the judges table to receive her prize. \u201cI was still pissed,\u201d she says, but her coach assured her: the world of competitive dancing isn\u2019t a world of minutae. She won, he told her later, because she danced full-out and smiled and looked like she was having fun. \u201cWhich,\u201d she admits, \u201cI was.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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