Perfectionism ndi khalidwe lofala pakati pa ovina a ballroom. Zitha kukhala zothandiza kukuyendetsani kuti muwongolere luso lanu ndikukhala ovina bwino kwambiri omwe mungakhale. Komabe, kufuna kuchita zinthu mosalakwitsa kalikonse kungakhalenso kovulaza ngati kumabweretsa kudzidzudzula mopambanitsa kapena mikhalidwe yofuna kuchita zinthu mwangwiro zimene sizingatheke.
Pali zinthu zina zomwe mungachite kuti muchepetse vuto lofuna kuchita zinthu mosalakwitsa chilichonse komanso kuti lisakhale vuto.
Choyamba, yesani kuzindikira pamene muyamba kumverera zikhoterero zofuna kuchita zinthu mwangwiro zikukugwerani. Ngati mungathe kudzigwira mwamsanga, mukhoza kuzidumpha mumphukira zisanakule. Mkhalidwe wofuna kuchita zinthu mosalakwitsa umaphatikizapo kudziikira zolinga zosayenerera ndi kudziyerekezera nthaŵi zonse ndi ena amene mukuwaona kukhala angwiro.
Pomaliza, sindinu mulungu. Timadzifunsa chifukwa chomwe sitingathe kuchita bwino, ndipo yankho ndiloti simuli (ndipo palibe amene ali pafupi nanu) wangwiro.
Ngati muwona kuti kufuna kuchita zinthu mwangwiro kwayamba kukhala vuto m’moyo wanu, zingakhale zothandiza kupeza thandizo la akatswiri. Katswiri atha kukuthandizani kumvetsetsa zomwe zimayambitsa kufunitsitsa kwanu kuchita zinthu mwangwiro ndikupanga dongosolo lothana nazo.
Perfectionism ndi chikhalidwe chofala pakati pa osewera mpira, koma sichiyenera kukhala vuto. Ndi kuzindikira ndi khama, mukhoza kulamulira maganizo angwiro ndi kuzigwiritsa ntchito kuti mupindule. Ungwiro ukhoza kukulimbikitsani kukulitsa luso lanu ndikukhala ovina bwino kwambiri. Ingokumbukirani kukhala ndi zolinga zenizeni, kuvomereza kuti zolakwa ndi mbali ya maphunziro, ndipo khalani okonzeka kusiya miyezo yofuna kulakwitsa zinthu zomwe simungathe kuzikwaniritsa.